how to "GET" followers ... (on my blog?)

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Well... many ways to do it. Personally I would like to believe there is no "wrong" way to do so. BUT, there is always this invisible "unspoken" rules. To make it complicated since it is "muted & therefore blinded", then stepping on people's toes is just something that must take place. Prophecy just doesn't fit right in here cos it is like a booby trap, IF u know what i mean... ^_* wink wink .

Same applies in Facebook. Rubbing shoulder's is now "made alive" in Facebook with all the invisible "unspoken" rules. You CAN propose a rule & you are ALLOWED to propose. Democratic huh ? ^_* wink wink. The word Spam is so familiar yet so alien that people may find it hard to grasp as to where/ how to draw the line BEFORE someone REPORT you for spamming follows by Punishment without conviction/ trial. (u r Guilty until the blocking lifted ^_* hahahah -lol- ) 

i am blessed & i know i am. i can say that all of my more than 3000 facebook frens are really "frens" frens. i have come to believe that because we are connected for over 2 yrs. We rubbed shoulders, we cry & laugh together & at each other, etc - yet, we are still in each other's facebook.

So last night, eagerly i wanted followers in my blog. So i did it "conventional" way. Posting the link & "invite" frens to follow. One fren inboxed me & sounded annoyed at the same time, explained to me he doesn't like what i did "to" him. Posting my link on his status that is.

We had a pep talk & ended with a line of wisdom from him - he said -
Abigail, if what you are doing is right, it will attract attention all on its own.

i went like, WOW !!! - a great awakening... that is SOOOOOO true... just a simple line, YET that's the principal of nature ... (even though what i wanted is followers, not attention, but yeah... i do believe if what i m doing is right, it will attract the alike...to follow... why not ? ^_* wink wink)